Archive for November, 2009

Kissing frogs good-bye!

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

Here are some breaking news for all bad-ass-aesthetically-spoiled-princesses like me!

Last night, I found a very interesting hypothesis by Bruno Bettelheim. In his “Kinder Brauchen Märchen”/“Uses of Enchantment: The Meaning and Importance of Fairy Tales”, he explains that the fairy-tales featuring beast grooms (like frogs and beasts) are all about how love and affection will turn sexuality, which the inexperienced perceive as something animalistic (the beast-groom), into an awarding act (the prince). He does not claim that is about kissing someone you actually don’t want to kiss.

So good-bye to the idea that good girls get awarded for kissing frogs and beasts!

(Yeah dad, I do remember what you told me: “A handsome man is good for a night, a good man is good for a life-time.” My intuition also does not completely agree with rejecting the frog thing, but… Damn it!)

And here my last frog-kiss. You can send in the prince!

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Media Objectivity & Business in Iraq

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009

Ask me where I’ve been in April, I don’t know. Mars? Strange how I’ve missed this one, but I guess it is never too late. The 2009 Pulitzer price for investigative journalism went to David Barstow of The New York Times for his story about how dozens of retired US army generals who were working as radio and TV analysts for major US media were co-opted by Pentagon to make its case for war in Iraq and how many of them had undisclosed ties to companies that benefited from policies they defended. Reading Barstow’s articles helps understand why war in Iraq and what proportions the business deals in an occupied country can take.

I wonder more and more who really bombed the towers…

From “Behind TV Analysts, Pentagon’s Hidden Hand”:

“But in the summer and fall of 2006, even as he was regularly asked to comment on conditions in Iraq [on CNN], General Marks was working intensively on bidding for a $4.6 billion contract to provide thousands of translators to United States forces in Iraq. In fact, General Marks was made president of the McNeil spin-off that won the huge contract in December 2006.”

Here his two stories:

Barry McCaffrey’s World

Behind TV Analysts, Pentagon’s Hidden Hand

180 degrees in 1 minute

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

Last Saturday, I had the most bizarre and, after the book presentation in Vienna, the most fantastic book reading ever.

I have been invited to read from “From Barrie to Vibrator” on the book fair in Wiener Neustadt, a small city 40km south of Vienna.

Two surprises were waiting for me there: first, Wiener Neustadt is an surprisingly pretty old city. Second, I was supposed to read after Annemarie Moser, a lady who is from Wr. Neustadt and still lives there. So basically, the audience was her audience. And here audience is from Wr.Neustadt and is between 75-85 years old. From Barbie to WHAT???

She read her stories for 45 minutes. Her stories are about elderly or sick people. Beautiful, but heavy and depressing. I was panicking. I changed the stories I was going to read for three times. I thought nothing can save this hopeless situation. I even considered disappearing. And to make things worse, there was a break between our readings. So I expected the audience to become either incurably depressed or to leave during the break.

They didn’t. Neither. Nor.

I started reading, scared like shit. And the faces of those grey-haired people immediately started lighting up. After one minute they were glowing like a bunch of little suns. After two minutes they were cracking of laughter. And they couldn’t stop laughing. I have never had such attentive, good-humored audience. They kept on laughing, listening carefully and applauding for 45 minutes. And then they asked for more! So I read one more story.

The first gentleman came to have his book signed as I was still sitting on the stage. And a whole bunch of people was already waiting at the books table for me to sign. They all wanted to meet me and talk to me. I haven’t felt so welcome and so admired since the book presentation in June.

It was just amazing how a situation can turn 180 degrees within one single minute. You can never, ever know how it might end.

Or was it all Frau Moser? I already considered asking her if we could always read together. So she can depress the people and then they can’t help but adore me for lifting them up….

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Tuesday, November 10th, 2009

Florida, last Friday. A guy walks in into the company he has been fired from, starts shooting around, kills one and shoots six. He was unemployed and had $90,000 debt.

Info in Telegraph

Paris, last month. Yet another France Telecom employee killed himself. He jumped off a bridge and left a note complaining about the bad atmosphere at work after he has been transferred to Customer Services department. This makes 29 suicides among France Telecom employees in past year and half. Not to forget is a bunch of attempted suicides which were prevented on time.

France Telecom decided to employ 200 psychiatrists and invest €1 billion in preventing Burnout. Can it happen that this will make the people feel sicker than they are? And result in everybody thinking they have a personal problem – while the money keeps pouring from one pocket (FT) to the other (some private firm who employed the psychiatrists). Instead of securing jobs, cutting stress (how about starting with working hours?) and starting to treat employees like human beings?

Info in Financial Times

We have never been this well off – and this desperate. Why?

Stop the Wars!

Friday, November 6th, 2009

13 people (soldiers) killed, 30 wounded at the army base Ft. Hood, Texas.

Come on, are we really supposed to be surprised?

The man was a psychiatrist, treating US soldiers who suffered from PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) upon their return from Iraq and Afghanistan. We cannot imagine the horror stories he was listening to and dealing with day after day. Really, we are  sitting our living rooms watching CNN and think we know what war is about. WELL, WE DON’T! It is million times worse than anything we can imagine.

Plus, he is Muslim, his parents are from Palestine – the most unfairly treated country in the world since World War II. And he was to be deployed to Iraq or Afghanistan (against his will) to kill other Muslims. Of course he was full of hatred, aggression and frustrations. He is just a human being. As everyone involved in this should be.

Those unnecessary wars must stop.

little truths of life

Sunday, November 1st, 2009

My dad complaining against my new bangs (Stirnfransen/siske):

Dad: “I preferred you without bangs. You looked more serious. People look more intelligent when you can see their forehead.” (God woman, you look like a kid now. Grow up finally!)

Me: “Yes, it’s really interesting how people react differently now that I have bangs…” (Yeah dad, but you should see men looking at me since my new hairstyle)

Dad (smiles): ”Yes, men don’t like intelligent women” (Forget it, they’ll keep on running away)

Me, wondering: “Shit, is he reading my mind?”