Today I want to give a big THANK YOU to all my readers who took few minutes to contact me. Writing is a very solitary process and once the book is out there in your hands, suddenly there is this big silence. And this silence is only broken by the occasional e-mail from a reader. It is very motivating to get feedback. Even if the feedback is negative – just knowing that your book has touched someone is fantastic.
I received an e-mail today that made me cry. The lady who wrote it is a librarian with a passion for books. She called me a “woman who offers guidance. To everybody.” Which is the biggest compliment I have ever received.
What made me cry is the fact that all those experiences, emotions, thoughts, dilemmas I described in the book were not wasted. They were anyway not wasted, but the fact that they became a book made them even more valuable. And than knowing that there are people out there to whom those things mean something and give them something is the most incredible feeling. It gives so much motivation to go on. To live and to write.
And to love life.
Thank you.
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To my readers
Thursday, January 29th, 2009Happy 2009!
Thursday, January 1st, 2009I wish all readers of my blog an absolutely fantastic 2009! Let this crisis stay virtual, let’s use it to make things better and let love rule!
P.S. And let me have a bestseller!
Merry Christmas!
Thursday, December 25th, 2008
Jonathan
Sunday, December 7th, 2008“I believe in re-birth of wonder.” Jonathan Carroll
Congratulations to Change!
Wednesday, November 5th, 2008Obama won and I am celebrating. This vicotry is not so much about Obama – it is about the collective conscious of what used to be the most powerful nation in the world. The fact that he won with so much lead showed that people are fed of the state their nation was in and angry of the stiff, greedy, cruel class that was leading it for the past eight years.
The real question now is: how much will really change? In one week, when the euphoria is over, the country will still be involved in two unfair wars it cannot really get out of, it will still have a strong business lobby ruling it from the shadows, it will still be economically ruined, it will still be based on values which helped turn capitalism into a beast it just proved to be, bringing the world to the crash we are experiencing right now. I still hear the loud “boos” coming from the crowd when McCain compared increasing taxes for rich to socialism. This is still a country of people who believe in self reliance, that it is their duty to make it on their own, no matter how many sacrifices have to be made, and that having “made” it, is enough of a contribution to their society. They still believe that contributing a part of their self-made wealth is “socialism” and bad. Not everybody should be doing fine, only those who “deserved” it. To return to human values and to start flourishing again, this whole nation has to start thinking of itself as a collective, not as a bunch of individuals. Can Obama make that change?
Speaking of looks… I watched a documentary on both candidates last night and I was surprised to see how handsome John McCain was when he was young. And then I realised that both Obama and his wife are good looking people. Yes, we know that Joe Biden is very handsome and Sarah is a beauty queen. I wondered what does this mean. Does this say something about the
Bambi or Wolf?
Monday, October 27th, 2008God, I survived a walk in the woods with a heterosexual man!
I normally go for my weekly wood magic with my gay neighbour (and friend) Patrick. And it is always plain beautiful: In spring, we are excited about the little pink and white buds coming out of the wet and dark earth, later in the year we pluck Bärlauch (ramson or bear’s garlic) and discuss the best Bärlauch recipes. In summer, we lie on a little chequered blanket and bask in the sun. And in the fall, we search for mushrooms in all colours and sizes. Like we did last weekend in the Little Red Riding Hood wood – it really was like a scene from a Disney cartoon.
Well, today was the first time in a long, long time that I went into a wood with a hetero man. And no, it wasn’t all about the big bad wolf eating poor Little Red Riding Hood behind a bush. First, we got lost – my walker was absolutely sure he knew his way around as he is mountain biking through this wood every week. Then, we ended up climbing a VERY high hill. And then we were even more lost, soon sliding down a very steep slope covered in slippery red leafs. Please note: I was wearing little golden adidas shoes. So once we managed to get off the slope (finally), I ended up sinking in mud – not only did my little golden shoes disappear in black mud but so did my cool jeans, all the way up to my knees. Thank god the hetero man on my side was big and strong and immediately fished me out. I really love woods, but I swear to God, I just wanted to get out of that one.
What is it about gay men? How can they make any wood into a Bambi paradise? Why are butterflies and rabbits and flowers dancing in the sun whenever a gay man enters a wood? I mean, when you go into a wood with a gay man, you could as well put on your thinnest stilettos and you would be ok…. I don’t know. It’s…magic. Gay magic. Or am I simply a fag hag?
I don’t get it.
But since writing about woods (again), here my favourite wood joke:
“Aha! Little Red Riding Hood!” says Big Bad Wolf, upon finding the girl in the woods. “Now I’m going to take off your little read cape, lift up your little red skirt, pull down your little red panties and fuck your brains out!”
“Oh no, you’re not, Mr. Wolf,” Red Riding Hood retorts, pulling a pistol out of her basket and drawing a bead on the wolf. “You’re going to eat me just like the book says!”
Maybe that is it! In the woods, girls either want to meet Bambi or Wolf! Not sink in mud.