Sometimes, it is fantastic to meet people you haven’t seen for many, many years, especially if they had an important role in your life. Because they show you how much you have - or have not - changed during this time.Few days ago, I met an “affair” I haven’t seen in (something like) 10 years. I really liked him a lot back then, and he - he just preformed an expensive mating ritual, had sex with me and disappeared (kind of). He hasn’t changed. Back then, I liked guys who looked like young English lords. Extremely stylish, sleek and classic. Men who were never young. I have changed. Back then, I was what in Austria you would call a “tussi” – very stylish and always fun. We met in the most posh bar in Vienna. This time, it couldn’t have been more different - I asked him to accompany me to a discussion at the university. He was so out of place there, it was cute. And he must have been wondering what the hell happened to me - which sane woman would exchange Manolo's for trainers and posh bars for uni benches. The change I went through really fascinates me and I often wonder how many people go through a big “personality” change. Especially within a shor time period. Still, I must admit sometimes wonder if I like the person I have become….