When my editor asked me if I would write a story about world’s most luxurious department stores and their strategies for dealing with competition coming from Internet shopping, I immediately said yes. The mix of luxury, most beautiful places in the world, cultural differences and strategic marketing sounded endlessly appealing. But what I found out was sad more than exciting.Read More
American Northwest is really amazing for its very specific style (where else can you find a sexy lumberjack?) – and for the passion with which they embrace it. There’s a chance you’ll walk into a trendy restaurant in Seattle (or better said in Ballard) and every single man will wear a plaid shirt. Amazed by this lumberjack chic, but also by endless coolness of local brands such as Filson and Pendleton, I simply had to write an “Upper Left Chic” story.Read More
Ever since I first arrived to LA, I have been fascinated – and inspired – by Angelenas’ love for minuscule gold jewelry. And then came Meghan Markle with her gold stacking rings and dainty necklaces - and I decided to find out why women in Los Angeles love their delicate gold jewelry so much.Read More
Inspired by one of my favorite places in LA, Chateau Marmont, I wrote a big story about LA’s legendary hotels. LA has a unique relationship with its hotels – while in most other cities, hotels are left to tourists, Angelenos embrace their hotels as temporary homes, second homes, offices, locations for business meetings and even dates. I blame this on two phenomena: first, most of the people in the Industry are freelancers so hotels take over a role of an office. Second, there’s the aspect of privacy – fans or paparazzi won’t bug you in a hotel as much as they might in a random restaurant.Read More
Somehow I ended up writing two fun stories about newest trends in fitness. The most interesting thing I learned was the rise of Biohacking - basing your fitness regimen, diet and rest on your gene tests. I’m excited to see that we’re starting to see some aspects of our lives in a holistic way - once we learn that everything is connected, and start treating issues as big puzzles and not isolated phenomena, we’ll lead much healthier and happier lives. And maybe even save the planet.Read More
In past few months, I wrote three big stories on this topic: one on American women who started their own toxin-free cosmetic brands, one on toxin-free nail polishes and one on toxin-free hair dyes and hair care. Although I already knew a lot, it shocked me to find even more horrifying facts – for instance how the chemicals from nail polish can be found in other parts of the body two hours after the application, or how hair color is full of PPD which has been linked to lung and kidney problems and bladder cancer.Read More
Wow I am so very touched by the pictures from the latest royal wedding. Not because it’s a royal wedding and not because I care about Eugenie and her (now) husband but because Eugenie has proudly showed her scar from her scoliosis surgery - and the media has not only noticed but has positively commented on it.
It took me many years to find pride in the scar from my scoliosis surgery. My scar stretches all the way down my spine. But after years of trying to hide it (which you can’t really, if you love the beach as much as I do) and a few thoughts about plastic surgery, I learned to carry it with pride. I learned that my scar is actually my medal - from a terrible battle only a few have fought at such a young age. (I must ad here that one of the most beautiful things a man ever told me was my husband shyly admitting that he finds my scars (I also have one on my hip from the same surgery) sexy.)
Approximately 2-3% of population suffers from scoliosis - a degenerative curvature of the spine - and it’s mostly girls. Wearing a brace is the first thing in trying to correct the curvature. I was stuck in my brace for six years (for 23h a day!) of my life - from 9-15 years of age. It’s a horrendous experience. It’s horribly painful - I sometimes had open wounds from the brace; it terribly disturbs your practical life; and it turns a child - in the years she’s most vulnerable to her image - into a freak. I spent many years in a metal brace that went all the way up to my chin. Try walking to school, sitting in school, having a social life , doing your homework in a painful medieval torture tool.
After years of the horrors of the brace and daily physical therapy, my doctor concluded I had to have surgery. I described the surgery in detail in my book Titoland and it is too painful to repeat it here. Let me say this: a week of being stretched out with heavy weights before the surgery; being cut open, stretched out, spine fused with a ling metal rod - and then woken up still open on the surgery table in order to prove you can consciously move. The most indescribable pains of recovery - you’ve been cut open, your whole skeleton has been realigned, and now you have a long metal rod sticking to your spine. Six months in a full upper body cast followed by six months in a brace.
I can proudly say the horror I experienced at the fragile age of 15 did make me stronger. I know what really matters in life. I know what a blessing health is. I know how fragile we are and how we should LOVE every moment when life is ok (not great - ok). I know not to let minor pain scare me.
Every time I enter a ballet class and feel the wood of the bar in the palm of my hand I’m overwhelmed by being endlessly grateful that I can move.
A few years ago, I was approached by a mother of a girl wearing a brace for her scoliosis. She told me how scared her daughter was - and I knew this feeling. I was so happy I could share my experience with the girl, send her pictures of my wedding dress with an open back, videos of me dancing - and tell her her beautiful, healthy self is waiting to reveal herself.
I wish I had the opportunity - like Eugenie does - to do this for more girls suffering from scoliosis.
P.S. This entry got so much attention that it became a story in Gloria:
When my editor asked me for a story about interior design, I remembered I read somewhere about Diana Mausser and her “Native Tile”. I talked to lovely Diana and was truly inspired by her story and her work. And I learned a lot – about the process of creating artisan tiles, about people who love and collect them and about how style travels through space and time.Read More
My big article on the spiritual side of Los Angeles lead to two interesting interviews with two famous spiritual teachers who were not only successful with their own messages but also appeared in The Secret (I do turn red when admitting it, but I love that book): Neale Donald Walsch and Marie Diamond.Read More
Last year, I wrote two fun LA stories for Gloria Glam: about LA’s obsession with yoga, and LA’s love for spas. Both are ways for Angelenos to escape the stress of surviving the (film) industry and living in this intense city.Read More
This year, Harley Davidson is celebrating its 115th birthday and I wrote a big piece about it for the February issue of Gloria Glam. It was surprisingly interesting learning about its past, bikes in WWI and WWII, bikers, Hells Angels, the 1%ers, and all the music, books, fashion, films and TV series inspired by the free life on 2 wheels.Read More
I didn’t plan to put my sauce into the whole Weinstein thing because sometimes I wonder if the world really needs my opinion every time I have one. But when the #me too thing started, I felt it’s not fair not to admit that yes, #me too. And then a male friend commented and questioned the authenticity of so many me too’s and wondered if they’re going to ruin male-female relationships forever. He also asked me why I stayed silent till now. Yes, why did I?Read More
Welcome to Beverly Hills, a city of 35,000 inhabitants and 80 plastic surgeons, where face-lifts cost $150,000, girls get their labia done at 18 and their first face-lifts at 30. Where rich housewives kill themselves after their expenisve face lifts and movie stars claim they never had any work done, even when they have a completely new face.
I interviewed five of the best plastic surgeons in Beverly Hills (which means in the world) for the April issue of Gloria. Join me down a rabbit hole!Read More
Recently, I interviewed Zoë Kravitz for "Gloria". Zoë is gorgeous and has an amazing style. So I wrote about her style.
I so wanted to love Wonder Woman. It caused such a big explosion of feminist emotions in the USA in the past weeks that I had to see it, in spite of promising myself I’d never watch another superhero movie again (so fed up with explosions – of any kind). What really made me want to see it was an article by a woman who wrote a whole piece about how she cried during fight scenes. And then her female readers’ comments on the article – they all cried. I too wanted to be so inspired by the beauty and fierceness of a female superhero that tears came down my cheeks.
They didn’t. Only tears of desperation because for me, this movie was so wrong in so many ways. I expected more from a woman creating a female superhero than just copying (and punching) the men.
Here's how Wonder Woman disappointed the (European) feminist in me.Read More
Oh well, so here I am a few days ago, accompanying a friend to a trendy LA hair salon where she was getting color and cut for her usual $600 (which isn't even considered so bad in the city where may cuts start with $400 and colours with $800). And I'm flipping through the magazines which I normally don't get to read. And find this (either in Harper's Bazaar or Elle):
So if you're like "Yeah, what's this?" please look closer. And then let me tell you: This is the reality of the world we (especially in the USA) live in.
Seeing these two pages side by side (in a fashion magazine, while sitting in a place where they charge $600 for doing your hair ) made my stomach cramp. First, I took the picture. And then I went online for a little research. And here's what I found (and why I had such a gut reaction).
Left page - Save the Children: In the USA, 15 million children live bellow poverty line. USA is the worst country in the developed world. One in 5 kids live in poverty. Each year, approximately 3.1 million children die of hunger worldwide.
Right page - Pet Obesity Prevention (!!!!!!!): In 2016, USA pet food market was valued at $24.60 billion (!), and is expected to reach $30.1 billion in 2022. 31% of cats and 34% of dogs in the USA are obese.
So if that doesn't seem bad enough, here some statistics I found while researching for my article about dog's life in Hollywood: the whole world sends $30 billion a year in financial help to the whole African continent. That is how much Americans spend on pet food - so they can then be worried about pet obesity. Total US pet industry is estimated to reach $92 billion in 2019. Three times of what the world sends to Africa.
So where do we start?
Or even better - where do we end?
P.S. Who and why put these two ads next to each other? Completely oblivious or subversive?
Had she not changed her form on 1st October last year, my mama would have turned 70 today. Losing her literally felt like losing a part of myself. Both physical and emotional. I'm still learning to live this new life and give myself the courage, strength, optimism and joy she used to give me.
Two days after she left, I wrote a piece about her for "Gloria". When I sat down to write it, I wondered if I was insane for insisting I could do it. The wounds were still bleeding. But I did it. And here, to honour my mama's birthday, the translation.Read More
I just accidentally came across this: my mom at the film festival in Cannes in 1971, where she was promoting her film "WR Mysteries of the Organism", and only wore stuff she found on markets while travelling through ex-Yugoslavia. She was always endlessly true to herself, never followed trends or fashion. Never let a professional make-up or hair person come close to her, even when she was filming. Didn't even know what a stylist is. So it's a bit of a surprise - which it shouldn't be - to find her pictured as a style icon. Being true just always wins.
Like everything else, having a baby in Hollywood can be quite an insane thing. The core of my story for the February issue of Gloria Glam was the embarrassment of having consciously jumped into that rabbit hole. For once, I wrote a story pointing not only at the insanity of the world around me, but my own. And that part got cut out. So here you go:Read More